When Someone Sees It Differently, Try Curiosity Before Persuasion.

By Canadian Management Centre

Overview: This resource introduces the VIEW framework, a simple four-step approach for working with people who see a situation differently. It helps you understand what may be shaping another person’s perspective, identify what matters to them, consider what their view can add to yours, and work toward a stronger next step.

Two people can look at the same situation and come away with different conclusions.

That does not necessarily mean one person is right and the other is wrong. You may be working with different information, priorities, experiences, or concerns.

Before you start explaining why your view makes sense, use VIEW to get curious about theirs.

Use VIEW

V — Verify what they know

What do they know that I don’t?

They may have information, experience, or context you have not considered. Ask questions that help you understand what is shaping their point of view. You may uncover something that changes how you see the situation.

I — Identify what matters to them

What are they trying to protect or achieve?

Look beyond the position they are taking. They may be focused on speed, quality, risk, workload, cost, the customer, or another priority that matters to the work. Understanding what they are trying to accomplish can make their perspective easier to understand.

E — Expand your own view

What part of their view could improve mine?

You do not have to agree with everything they are saying. Look for the part of their perspective that adds something useful to yours. Maybe they are noticing a risk you missed, bringing experience you do not have, or considering an impact you had not thought about. The goal is not to give up your point of view. It is to make it stronger.

W — Work toward a better next step

What would a better next step look like if we used both perspectives?

Once you understand what each person is seeing, bring the useful pieces together. You may still disagree on some things. The question is whether what you have learned from each other can lead to a stronger decision, clearer next step, or better result.

What VIEW can look like at work

Imagine two coworkers are discussing a project deadline.

One wants to launch as planned. The other wants more time before moving ahead.

Instead of immediately defending the deadline, the first person asks a few questions. They learn that their coworker has spotted a customer issue that could create problems after launch.

Now the conversation changes. It is no longer simply “launch now” versus “delay.” They can look at the risk together and decide whether it can be addressed without changing the whole plan.

That is VIEW in action. The different perspective did not get in the way of the work. It helped them see more of it.

Different perspectives can make the work better

You do not need to see things the same way to move forward.

Sometimes the better answer comes from understanding why someone else sees it differently, and using that perspective to see more of the picture yourself.

Before your next conversation, remember:

Verify. Identify. Expand. Work. 

That’s VIEW.

Frequently Asked Questions

 How can I understand someone else’s perspective at work?

Start by asking what information, experience, priorities, or concerns are shaping their view. The goal is to understand what they may be seeing before trying to persuade them.

 What should I do when a colleague sees a situation differently?

Ask questions before defending your own position. Look for what they know, what matters to them, and what part of their perspective could improve your own thinking.

 Do I need to agree with someone to understand their perspective?

No. Understanding another perspective does not mean agreeing with it. It helps you see what may be influencing their position so you can make a better decision about how to move forward.

 How can different perspectives improve decision making?

Different perspectives can surface risks, priorities, information, or impacts that one person may not see on their own. When those viewpoints are understood and used well, they can lead to stronger decisions and next steps.

 My colleague and I never seem to agree on how to move forward. What can I do?

Start by trying to understand what is shaping each person’s point of view before focusing on the solution. Look at what each of you knows, what matters most, and what you may be missing. That can make it easier to find common ground or a stronger next step.

 How do I stop a difference of opinion from turning into conflict?

Try to get curious before becoming defensive. Ask what the other person is seeing, what they are trying to achieve, and what part of their perspective may be useful. That can keep the conversation focused on the work instead of the disagreement.

 What is the VIEW framework?

VIEW is a four-step approach for working with someone who sees a situation differently. It stands for Verify what they know, Identify what matters to them, Expand your own view, and Work toward a better next step.

 

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